Sunday, May 15, 2011

Living in Oblivion...

and I'm not talking about those 5 CD's that are all 80's music. I apparently don't pay attention as well as I could when it comes to boys. I have been with friends a few times over the last few weeks and they've all said to me, that guy was just checking you out. I didn't even realize. I didn't even see. I don't understand how that happens. Am I that oblivious that I don't even notice attractive boys checking me out anymore?

I have got to start paying more attention. I don't want to be the person that needs it shouted at him, or go back to high school where a note is passed and you're told that someone likes you. I would like to figure out that there's an attraction on my own...I just need to get better about seeing the signs I guess.

For now though boys, I will say this...subtly might be lost on me, you might just have to approach me and tell me...I just might be oblivious otherwise...or, if we're going out, tell me it's a date...or ask me for a date and not just to hang out...I might not pick up on the difference...I have got to get better at this...

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