I just can't...

I've had it with the lies and the bullshit surrounding the Marriage Debate.

Hey...Brian Brown - you Horse's Ass. I have a very good understanding of the separation of Church and State. I understand that you have the right to define marriage within the walls of your church...since there is a separation of Church and State, however, your religion does NOT have the right to define what civil marriage is. I am not asking to get married in your church, so stop telling me I don't understand the separation of Church and State and that I am violating your rights by trying to define marriage.

By the way, you're lying about us hating on the religious folks. We didn't shut down adoption agencies because we hate. The truth is those agencies were funded by states with non-discrimination clauses that said in order to get funding they had to not discriminate. They chose to close rather than allow same sex couples to adopt...we didn't shut them down because we hate them...they were shut down because they hate us, just like this pastor. Yes...religion...all about love!

Just sayin...

Living in Oblivion...

and I'm not talking about those 5 CD's that are all 80's music. I apparently don't pay attention as well as I could when it comes to boys. I have been with friends a few times over the last few weeks and they've all said to me, that guy was just checking you out. I didn't even realize. I didn't even see. I don't understand how that happens. Am I that oblivious that I don't even notice attractive boys checking me out anymore?

I have got to start paying more attention. I don't want to be the person that needs it shouted at him, or go back to high school where a note is passed and you're told that someone likes you. I would like to figure out that there's an attraction on my own...I just need to get better about seeing the signs I guess.

For now though boys, I will say this...subtly might be lost on me, you might just have to approach me and tell me...I just might be oblivious otherwise...or, if we're going out, tell me it's a date...or ask me for a date and not just to hang out...I might not pick up on the difference...I have got to get better at this...