shut up and put your money where your mouth is...

At 36, I'm sick of people participating in the glory and the triumphs but not in the hard work. Ante up or get out of the game!

I have been finding catharsis in my purging journey of late. It's been alot of built up baggage and pain sometimes, but it's been worth it. Do I really need this piece of furniture? Why am I holding onto this shirt if it makes me feel fat and ugly? What is the purpose of keeping this book - did I enjoy reading it? Will I want to read it again?

I have been going through the same process in my head with some of the people in my life too...nothing has been verbalized yet. I haven't decided how I want to proceed...but if I'm being cathartic...why not go all the way?

The cards are on the table...I've seen your raise, and I'm calling your bluff. Shut up and put your money where your mouth is!

Thanks for all the birthday wishes by the way!