Just Asking...

if rainy days and mondays always get you down...what happens when it's a rainy monday?

it's miserable out there this evening, and I got SOAKED walking the four blocks from the gym to the subway to come home...so, it was a nice evening in, a movie and hot tea!

stop honking at me!!!!

I am a big boy that's been living in the big, bad city for a decade now...I know how to hail a freaking cab! If I needed you, trust me I would raise my arm and flag you down! So, do us both a favor, and the planet...stop honking at random people walking down the sidewalk - we can hail you if we need you mr cabbie!

1138...

I Do.

2 Words.

With those two words married couples have access to 1138 rights. 1138 federal rights, protections and benefits guaranteed by marriage in the United States. 1138 federal rights, protections and benefits denied to MILLIONS of loving couples for no other reason than their sexual orientation.

Why are we still debating this? If you're straight and reading this wondering why I'm asking - ask yourself this: why did I get married? You got married (hopefully) because you were in love with your spouse and wanted to be legally joined. Do you think those of us that are GLBT want anything different?

You got married, said those two words, and were a legally wed couple. You did not say those two words and have to sign hundreds of pages of documents in the presence of lawyers to have equal access to your spouse.

1138. Why are we still debating love?

Complaining...

I will never complain about having boy troubles again! I was walking after work to meet a friend for a drink and I was behind these two women who were having a very animated conversation about boy drama. I couldn't escape the conversation as they were walking side by side and I couldn't get around them. So, anyway, I overhear one ask the other why she's not with her man anymore. And then I am shocked by the reply:
"Cuz, girl, how many times can I stay with him, he's been arrested 6 times for being a gay hooker!"

My man troubles will never, ever compare to a straight woman who's man has been arrested 6 times for being a gay hooker!